July 1, 2023

July - News and Updates

Andy and I are both one of three kids.  We are both the oldest of three.  We always pictured our family as having three kids, and we also wanted short-ish age gaps.  Isaac and Lilah are 22 months apart, I am not yet 40, and we thought it was about time to finish growing our family so we could get rid of all the baby gear we are hoarding and then enter and exit the baby stage for the last time.

The good news is, I'm pregnant!  

When I went to my mountain biking festival at the end of April I was feeling better than I had for the lat month.  First trimester fatigue is legit.  I did abandon a skills course in favor of a nap on day 1, but other than that I could barely tell I was about 12 weeks along.

We went for the 12 week scan that Thursday.  The tech was quieter than I remembered at the start. I am a bit of a pessimist about pregnancy related things.  She seemed to sweep back and forth a number of times, and eventually I asked if there was anything in there.  I was increasingly sure she was going to tell me it was a missed miscarriage.  

Instead, she said "I'm going to tell you now, there are two"

I'm not going to document my reply.

So, it's been an interesting few months.  We had our 20 week scan last week, and there are in fact two babies. Both growing, both moving, both making me look far more pregnant than I am. They are fraternal twins (DC/DA, which means basically two separate pregnancies).

It's definitely a lot to wrap my head around.  It's meant that some of my goals are definitely not happening this year (bye bye 10k.).  It's meant that instead of pulling baby gear out of storage we are now scrounging additional baby gear from friends.

It's meant that I am telling work I'll be taking maternity leave in October, just after my one year service in August.

It's meant that this pregnancy does not have as much mountain biking in it as I expected, and I will definitely not be having a home birth (which I did with Lilah, under the care of the NHS, and it was great).

The kids are excited.  I am excited, among other things.  And, there's nothing to be done or changed.  All we can do is make our lives as easy/routine as possible before babies come.  

FYI, this is why we are getting a dishwasher.  I found out about twins on a Thursday.  Friday morning I woke andy up and told Andy we needed a dishwasher and a tumble drier.  I've always wanted a dishwasher, but this was a pretty extreme method of getting one.

Here is a photo that Isaac drew for family day. This is before we told him there are actually two babies in mommy's tummy:

16 comments:

  1. OH MY GOODNESS!!! Rachel. This is so exciting. Twins!! Wow.
    And definitely - definitely! - an excellent reason to get a dishwasher.
    Can't wait to follow along on this journey and wishing you a very smooth, safe, and enjoyable pregnancy.

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    1. Thank you Elisabeth! Yes, definitely a surprise here. Not sure "enjoyable" will be the right word but hopefully "smooth" and "safe" will be the right descriptors :-)

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  2. I got chills reading this. HOW WONDERFUL!!! Yes, twins are hard, four kids are hard (we have 4 all grown up kids...and it makes for delightful holidays!)...but ALL so worth it!

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  3. Wow!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Yes, a dishwasher is a very reasonable "push present". And what a great reason for the miss on the 10k goal;-)

    I'm so happy for you! And yes, getting "2 for the price of 1" is...quite a surprise.

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    1. Thank you! 2 for the price of 1 haha.. if only nursery offered that discount! :-)

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  4. CONGRATS! I am sure it was a shock that there are two, but it's doable, right? Other people have had twins and survived! I'm so excited to hear how things go for you on your family's new journey.

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    1. Haha yes it's true - others have survived twins! I remember thinking "how does anyone survive one baby!" when Isaac was born so I'm sure 2 is doable.

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  5. Oh goodness, what a shock! But much better news than your fear of a miscarriage. Here's hoping for an easy pregnancy (is there ever really such a thing) and an easy delivery and healthy babies!

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  6. That last one was me...I thought I had signed in, but apparently I had not. :)

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  7. Congratulations!! Will be following this amazing journey of yours closely. Hugs from New Jersey!

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  8. Oh, how wonderful Rachel! Twins. I am a twin, so I am probably biased but twins are the best! :) Congratulations!!

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    1. Oh wow! I feel like since I've started telling people I'm having twins I've found out just how many twins there are... so many people are twins! And it makes me especially happy to hear you like being a twin too. Do you have a twin brother or sister?

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  9. Oh, my goodness! What surprising - and wonderful - news. Congratulations! I'm shocked you didn't tumble right off the ultrasound table. :) I hope that the next few months go well for all, and that the preparations proceed apace (how's that tumble dryer coming??). Thanks for looping us all in. :)

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  10. I MISSED THIS!!! What exciting, thrilling, gobsmacking, fantastic news!!!!! I am so tremendously happy for you!

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