May 3, 2023

1 on a Friday, 4 on a Wednesday

I started this post on Friday but my 5 quickly became 1.  So, here's 1 on a Friday and 4 on a Wednesday 

1. This morning [last Friday] I woke up and checked email and found out that my credit card had been stolen, and someone had spent £2,000 very quickly at a number of shops in London over the last two days.  I know this will all get sorted but it seems like a real annoyance, I've ordered a new card and the fraud team will call later to tell me what happens with the rest.  It feels like a huge violation for someone to steal my money and spend it at fancy french shops in London.  I don't spend my earned money at fancy french shops in London, why would someone else get to spend their unearned money there?

2. Last weekend I went to a ladies mountain biking festival and had an awesome time riding bikes and doing yoga and camping.  It was my first ever camping trip sans husband, my first time setting up a tent, and my first time riding a gravel bike.  I wish I could spend every weekend at a ladies mountain biking festival.

3. I had had headaches in the evening which is a bummer.  I'm not sure if it's my computer/screen set-up, my posture, the fact that the sun is out, or something else, but I am getting vaguely annoyed with evening headaches now.

4. I am looking forward to TWO meals out this week!  Tomorrow with friends from work, and Friday with mom friends.  Tomorrow I am finally going to eat a Dosa which I have been dreaming about for three weeks now.  Also, excited to see my friend.

5. I am giving up on an audiobook.  I tried to read "How to do Nothing" and I was somewhat into the first chapter and then progressively lost interest.  I'm also a little bored/confused by books which talk about "neo-liberalism".  What is that?  It is a sort of para left dig the way "neo-conservitive" is a dig?  Or maybe neo-conservative isn't a dig?  I don't know, I am somewhat detached from american politics but I have read a few books recently that have used the term "neo-liberal" and it doesn't seem to mean the same thing in every book, and I get the sense that it's a bad thing.  I don't normally abandon books but 4 hours in I don't have 4 hours of attention left.

Have you read "How to do Nothing"? What is the best book you read in April?  What is the last book you abandoned?

12 comments:

  1. I read a lot of books I loved in April! The Nothing Man, All The Light We Cannot See, Crying in H Mart, What Alice Forgot.

    I'm so sorry about the credit card; that happened with our business credit card last year and it was such a hassle. Cancelling the card, waiting for the new one to come and changing all. the. things. that automatically billed to the card was a giant headache. I hope things get sorted quickly!!!

    How To Do Nothing was a DNF for me!

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    1. It's so funny to see how many people DNF that book! It's a rarity for me so I feel a bit better it happend to others. I'm so behind on your blog but I always pick through your reads on your blog and add them to my future lists.

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  2. Boo to whoever stole your credit card. I think the punishment should be that they give you 2k to spend on whatever you like.

    Is the complete title How to Do Nothing: Your Four Hour Guide on How to DNF an AudioBook;-) I don't DNF nearly as many audiobooks as regular books, but when I do, it's bad. I think the last one was a dysfunctional family memoir and after a few hours I was like "okay, your family just wasn't that interesting or dysfunctional and I don't need to know your personal business. Goodbye!"

    The bike camp on the other hand sounds fascinating. Enjoy your dinners out!

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    1. Haha! It is true that I couldn't finish a book about doing nothing. I started reading Lucy By The Sea (well, audiobook) before realizing it was a pandemic narrative and NOPED right out of it. I think i would feel the same about dysfunctional family memiors.

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  3. That's a bummer about your credit card. Very annoying. Hopefully it will all be sorted soon.

    I really like "How to do Nothing", but maybe I was coming at it from a different angle to you. It is different to the usual "simple life" and "low tech" books, more of a rage against dehumanising structures and how to push back against the view of human beings as consumers and producers, hence why she is not a fan of neo-liberalism, which touts free markets and de-regulation. Maybe the person he stole your credit card and bought lots of high end goods could do with reading this book.

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    1. I think I have recently read a number of book which circled around the same topic and that's why I wasn't as excited about How To Do Nothing. I totally agree with her points - I just wasn't patient enough for the rest of the book.

      I totally agree the person who stole my card probably should read a book about consumerism haha

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  4. Oooh! A bike camp; I did not even know that was a thing. It sounds like fun to me though, although I don't know anyone who mountain bikes, so I would have to go by myself (which is fine). I also need to get a bike rack but have been dragging my feet because they are kind of expensive and then I would have to install it and...(excuses!)

    I also DNFed How to do Nothing! I guess if we are sharing book recommendations, we should also be sharing DNFs so people will not have to waste their time, although I guess we all have different tastes. It seems like you and I have similar tastes so far -- FYI, I also DNFed Colleen Hoover's November 9 and Michael Chabon's Telegraph Ave. I actually have so many DNFs that I have a category on Goodreads for this. I used to try to get to 50% before deciding but then I decided that life is too short to read crappy books and now I give up on them all the time!

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    1. You can come join me next year! The festival was this one: https://ridefreecollective.com/. Bike racks are a pain to install, I put the bike in the car and it just fit with seats down.

      I like the DNF list thank you! I had heard good things about Telegraph Ave so interesting that you didn't finish it, it's not on my list but has been on my radar. I usually have a lower threshold for audio books than regular books - this was a big DNF for me.

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  5. The last book I DNFed was Daggerspell by Katharine Kerr. It's the start to a beloved fantasy series, but I was 150 pages in and had already dealt with violence and incest and just sort of took myself out of that world. Ha.

    I am so sorry your credit card was stolen. That is such a hassle and it takes forever to get it sorted!

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    1. Oh I couldn't do that book either! I actually stopped reading Game of Thrones the first time because I found it too brutal. I did read it later but I definitely don't like books that deal with such heavy subjects (and in fantasy too...? Couldn't we fantasize about a better world?)

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  6. Hi Rachel, I'm Daria from NJ. I read Jenny Odell's book when it first came out in the US. I remember muscling through it, especially her very detailed descriptions of the art installations or parks or something of that nature. I also felt like the title was a bit misleading (or maybe it's my fault for not reading the back flap of the book). I still have it on my shelf and was going to pass it along to someone else.

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    1. Hi! Welcome to my blog! I think I read a few similar books recently (a guide to stoicism being one of them) and so some of the bits I probably would have found interesting were less interesting having just read on similar topics. I definitely think she has very valid points and I'm glad that people do read and enjoy the book, I just couldn't keep going with it. Thanks for your comment!

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