I am very exited for this book:
Laura Vanderkam is an excellent writer on productivity and life organizing. Although the book isn't out yet, there is a sneak preview of the
9 time management rules for tranquility. I was actually already doing a few of them, but it's definitely made me a bit more thoughtful about my own priorities and scheduling.
Rule 6 is "One big adventure, one little adventure". I realized we were good on weekend adventures, but Andy and I hadn't really been scheduling many little adventures. Sure, we had some date nights, and intended to do adult dinner after kid dinner, but most of the time when we both found ourselves home in the evening we chatted, played on the internet, read and went to bed.
I know the value in scheduling, I'm currently writing from my weekly writing friend date night. She's writing a book, I'm writing a blog, and we meet every Thursday (or as many as possible) to write together.
I also have my one work/social night once a week, and an alternate week run & wine club with my neighbor. Andy has a MTB evening and a work evening. We do our planning meeting on Friday. I still felt like there were some evenings of tired at home time that could be better repurposed for fun.
I trailed our little adventure on Wednesday - we were both home after kid bedtime and house tidying so we decided to make Kimchee and Sauerkraut. Recently we took an amazing course with the
Crafty Pickle and had a ferment rotation going, but eventually slowed down and hadn't made anything for a while. I even had a fridge full of cabbage and carrots and ginger and almost going-off bits which needed fermenting.
8:00pm: it was go time:
And by 9:30:
Yay! My kimchee on the outside, Andy's sauerkraut in the middle. He went for red cabbage.
And to end the night, like any good date night, Andy had to plater his finger back together after garlic chopping incident (I wasn't involved, except to say "do you need stitches?" and "do you need to go to A&E" and "If you do go to A&E you should probably drive an hour to Abergavenny because I think their minor injuries unit will see you faster than our local flagship A&E")
I am very excited to add a weekly 90 minute date night to our schedule. Kimchee was ambitious, but next week perhaps we'll do cake baking for Isaac's birthday. And we might get into a TV show! Or, when we have childcare, go to the pub. Or maybe play a board game?
Tranquility by Tuesday comes out next week so I have another week to think of more ideas...
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